When a married couple is close to seeing their first child, it is not only the birthing process or the baby’s name that they think of thoroughly. Many new parents who have lived in the city their entire lives also start to consider getting a property in the countryside and raising their kid there.
Some follow through with the idea since they want the child to grow up in an area where the air is not too polluted. That is honestly difficult to guarantee when you are in the metro, and you see thousands of cars on the streets every day. Others do it, saying “I have witnessed my friend struggle when it comes to disciplining her kids who only know city life. I do not want that experience for myself.”
While all these grumbles about raising a child in the heart of the metro are not too far from the truth, though, you cannot deny that there are also benefits of having little city slickers.
For families with young children, for example, the merits of being able to load up the van with the encumbrances of family life as compared with shepherding young kids on foot through busy city streets is not hard to see.— Colin Ellard Ph.D.
- The Kids Will Not Know Segregation Or Discrimination
Every urbanized area across the globe is a melting pot of cultures, in the sense that people of diverse races and beliefs can all live there in harmony. You can be a Catholic or Atheist; you may have copper, yellow, or white skin. Everyone is welcome to stay in the community.
When your child grows up seeing people of different colors on a daily basis, therefore, he or she will not have a perception of racial segregation or discrimination. The kid will not think that “Oh, I only have to play with these kids since we have the same skin color” or “I should not hang out with those kids because we don’t have anything in common spiritually or physically.” Isn’t that what we have always wanted – the end of factions?
We need to be prepared to take a hard look at our own behavior in order to come to terms with what our children learn from us. They are likely to do what we do rather than what we say. — Thomas G. Plante Ph.D., ABPP
- They Can Talk To People With Confidence
Let’s say that you ask two kids – one raised in the country, while the other born and bred in the city – to hit a conversation with individuals of all ages. The former, considering he or she lives in a small town and does not come across new people often, may only reach out to kids and adults in his or her line of sight briefly. The child’s head may stay low the whole time too. If he or she manages to meet the eyes of the person in front of him or her, it may not even last a few seconds.
The latter, meanwhile, is the total opposite. Since the kiddo has ideally been around folks of different ages, statures, or races for a few years now, this kid can say hi to anyone without trouble. You may also hear him, or her ask “How are you doing?” or mention other pleasantries. In short, they exude a level of confidence that may not be easy to find in rural youngsters.
In the words of a recent statement from a group of international health experts published by the Lancet medical journal, young people are currently in the midst of a worldwide ‘pandemic’ of inactivity. — Richard Bailey Ph.D.
- The Children Have Everything At Their Fingertips
Cities are usually tiny pieces of land on the map that merely look big since contractors build spaces vertically. What it entails is that your apartment or condominium unit may be in one block. Once you step into the sidewalk, you may only have to walk several steps before reaching a coffee shop, a pizza parlor, a gym, and other vital places.
That is the kind of convenience that your kids may not find in the countryside. The properties owned by the people there are typically huge so that the nearest neighbor may beliving half a mile away. Malls and shops may be a little far as well even when you drive; that’s why the children have no access to everything they need while growing up.
The final decision to stay in or vacate the metro, of course, still depends on you. We merely want to make sure that you are well aware of the two sides of the coin so that you won’t end up moving to various locations in the future.