Busy, bustling streets or serene, winding roads? Time Square or Grand Canyon? Which part of America would you like to live? Having a difficult time deciding?
Perhaps you should first read this article below and study the different qualities of the urban and the rural areas, and then ask yourself what kind of person you really are. When you get to know who you are, what you want, how you feel about particular things, like the weather, the people, or the food, then you’ll finally know where to live.
Living In The Country Means:
- There’s A Lot Of Space. If you’re single, you can have two or three (or four!) pets. You can build a roomy house – not an apartment. You get to have a spacious yard and grow your own garden if you’re a green thumb. If you’re married, you can choose to have two or more kids and not deprive them of playtime on the grass. You can OWN a pool too. Cool!
- It’s Very Affordable. If you think food in single digits is impossible nowadays, you have got to visit the country. Food is cheap but still delicious, and most of what you eat is still cooked, not always pre-made and then heated. In the country, you don’t need to be updated with what’s the popular line of clothing or shoes, because, really, no one would care.
- Economic Status Is Not In The Extremes. It is proven by studies and research that there are no billionaires and lesser millionaires in the country. That being said, income or economic inequality is rare. What’s great is those who belong to the middle class can live a decent and comfortable life. You don’t meet many people who are conscious of their money. Mostly they are concerned about the weather.
- People Can Be Over-Friendly. Yes, they can, but you don’t have to be afraid. When you’re new in the countryside, you might be overwhelmed when people you meet say hello and wish you well, and most if not all of them mean it. It’s nothing to be suspicious about. Mothers invite you over to share stories about their babies. Doctors have more time with their patients and even call back when they need to. You feel welcome in your community.
Living In The City Means:
- You Feel Superior. There’s something in people from the city – an air, a confidence – that you can do what others are doing. If you want to be in a popular team but can’t join because it’s full, you can always start your own group. If you’re weird or some kind of gothic, you’re still welcome and nobody will think you’re different. If you’re gay or queer, don’t worry. The city will welcome you with open arms.
- Walking And Commuting Is Part Of City Life. You don’t need to purchase a car unless you decide to stay in Los Angeles. People are encouraged to walk or ride the bus or train. They don’t want to be stuck in the middle of a traffic jam just to go to work. They love to sit and listen to music or read a book while commuting. It can be their pastime.
- It Builds Patience, Tolerance, and A Thick Skin. Because the city is diverse, you need to cope with it. You’ll need to be patient with your noisy neighbors or competitive work colleagues. You need to think fast and grow a thick skin to be able to assert your rights – because if you won’t, you won’t grow. You’ll always be behind the lines, and you don’t want that if you’re living in the city.
So which one are you – a city or a country person? Do you love the peace and quiet, or do you enjoy living La Vida Loca? Weigh the pros and the cons to the type of person that you are. If you want to live like a king, go for country living. But if you want to not get stuck and be updated with the goings-on, live light, live tight but live to the fullest in the city. The choice is yours!